Saturday, February 20, 2010

i like abe


So do most of us.

But no one would confuse me with him.  After all, there is the height thing -- and all that facial hair.


Almost everyone's favorite story is the probably apocryphal tale of how he got his nickname "Honest Abe."


You know the story.  While working in a general store, he short changed a customer.  Realizing his mistake he walked a total of 6 miles to return 6 1/4 cents.


On Wednesday, I was in a rush to get ready for my afternoon flight.  One easy task was to pick up two items at the grocery store.  The walk was easy -- about a quarter mile.  The store always reminds me of the grocery stores of my youth -- lightly stocked, a bit untidy.


I gathered up my purchases and took them to the cashier -- a fellow I did not recall seeing before.  I reached for my wallet.  Nothing.  I had left it on the bed.


No problema
.  I would pay in coin.  Of course, I had just given the laundress all of my change.


The total was $26 (Mx).  I had $21 in change.


I offered to put one item back  the usual NOB solution.


He said:  Pay me later.  Well, he said it in Spanish.


I walked home and walked back immediately with the pesos.  He was a bit surprised at my sudden return.  And he would not accept an additional $5 (Mx) for his trouble.


My story does not even come close to our Honest Abe scriptural text.  But it illustrates my Mexican neighbors have relationships based on trust and honesty.


I am not naive.  I know the traits are not universal in Mexico -- nor even in Melaque.  My fellow bloggers have told tales of horrendous customer service.


But the trust factor is one reason I like Melaque.  It reminds me of how people treated one another when I was growing up in the small towns of southern Oregon.


A very good reason why I like Melaque as well as I like Abe.